Pengaruh Perilaku Kekerasan Orang Tua terhadap Perilaku Kekerasan Anak

  • Edith Anindita Wardani Universitas Indonesia
Keywords: child violence behavior; verbal violence; physical violence; parental violence

Abstract

Artikel ini bertujuan untuk membahas mengenai pengaruh antara kekerasan orang tua terhadap perilaku kekerasan anak. Dalam beberapa tahun belakangan, kasus kekerasan yang dilakukan oleh anak-anak cenderung meningkat. Studi- studi sebelumnya memaparkan bahwa tayangan kekerasan, teman sebaya, dan orang tua sebagai faktor yang menentukan perilaku kekerasan anak. Melengkapi studi tersebut, penulis berargumen bahwa kekerasan orang tua mempengaruhi perilaku kekerasan anak karena anak meniru perilaku yang dilakukan oleh orang tuanya, di mana anak laki-laki cenderung melakukan kekerasan fisik dan anak perempuan cenderung melakukan kekerasan verbal. Artikel ini juga ingin mengetahui bagaimana perilaku kekerasan dari orang tua berpengaruh terhadap perilaku kekerasan anak perempuan dan laki-laki. Artikel ini menggunakan metode pendekatan kuantitatif dengan teknik pengumpulan data simple random sampling. Total sampel dari sebanyak 105 responden anak kelas 1 SMPN XXX di Jakarta. Hasil dari penulisan artikel ini membuktikan bahwa anak yang pernah menerima kekerasan verbal dari orang tuanya cenderung melakukan perilaku kekerasan verbal kepada temannya, baik laki-laki maupun perempuan. Namun, hal tersebut tidak berlaku untuk kekerasan fisik. 

This article aims to discuss the influence of parental violence to child violence behavior. Within a few years, cases of violence by children increased. Previous studies have suggested that violence shows, peers, and parents are the factors that determine child violence behavior. Complementing the studies, this article argue that parental violence affects the behavior of child violence because children imitate behavior of their parents, where boys tend to resort to physical violence and girls tend to resort to verbal violence. This article also want to know whether the socialization of violent behavior from parents are took effect on violent behavior of girls and boys. This article uses a quantitative method with simple random sampling data collection thecnique. The number of samples are 105 respondents from grade 1 SMPN XXX in Jakarta. The result proves that children who have received verbal violence from their parents tend to engage in verbal violence behavior toward heir friends, both girl and boy. However, this does not apply to physical violence. 

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Published
2019-09-26
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Wardani, E. (2019). Pengaruh Perilaku Kekerasan Orang Tua terhadap Perilaku Kekerasan Anak. Jurnal Sosiologi Indonesia, 9(2), 245-274. Retrieved from http://jurnal.isi-sosiologi.org/index.php/JSI/article/view/16
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